After discovering my 17-year old daughter purchased an inappropriate toy online, I took her debit card and limited her job money. As a result, she is no longer speaking with me. What should I do in this situation?
Your daughter's reaction is understandable, but it's still not OK for her to stop speaking with you. Try sitting down with her and explaining your reasoning for taking away her debit card and job money. It may help to emphasize that you're only trying to protect her from future harm.
If she's still unwilling to speak with you, try reaching out to a trusted family member or friend who can help mediate the situation. Ultimately, your goal should be to repair the relationship with your daughter and ensure that she knows you only have her best interests at heart.
It may help to be patient, understanding, and consistent in your approach. You can also offer her an apology if you think it's necessary. With some time and patience, hopefully the two of you can move past this issue together.
Good luck!